Sunday, February 05, 2012

ye life hai take it lightly......


There are so many sayings or say gyan statements by bigwigs or small people or anyone on life and its values and ways to lead the same...
-like life is a cup of coffee and enjoy the same.....
-grass on other side always looks green so dont compare your life with others ....
and etc etc .... the list is so big that it can go on and on. It is like going on since ages. even many film songs have come up with the theme on life... like jindagi kaisi hai paheli hai.....even after so many examples and links since time immemorial there still exits quite a confusion as to how to lead a life... as to what is correct and what is wrong.... with passage of time it has become more complex and mysterious.
Its often said that u can listen to alll views but we must follow what our heart says. for that matter there is generally a big and constant fight between the heart and mind. Both trying to win and influence the others. The question that persists is :::::

Is it the life we were looking forward to... Is it what we dreamt of. Are we going in right direction. These questions are not limited to just a particular group of person or age or gender or society or region etc. Its a bit of universal phenomenon.

some people plan life and lead accordingly as if education tilll 25 , marriage at 30, kids at 32, car at 34, house at 36, and so on. The demands are unlimited and resources are definitely scarce. We keep on provisions also and other back up plans for any changes to be made accordingly. Some people dont plan things and let things come on their own. Facing at the heat of moment and taking decisions quite fast. One cannot question any technique or strategy but ya one has the habit of analysing and comapring what has happened in the past.

People have a life of their own but man being a social animal cannot keep him confined to him only. He is effected by all his surroundings like his family, friends, peer group, elders, teachers even influenced by books , tv and other personals directly or indirectly related.It some times comes to head that why to get so serious with life.



Ye life hai and we can take it lightly. Its much more than winning at each and every moment ... its much more than being the best in every nook and corner... its much more than having a huge mamooth bank balance and fantastic balance sheet... its much more than a bunch of friends and competitors.... at times life is all that we have ... yet its worth living no matter what may come and go and unfold......I agree mnay things are easier said than done... but what worries me is that have we taken life for granted ... have we burdened it with a lot of expectations... why have we believed that we have a birth right to happinesss.... Its not just destiny we should look forward too and leave everything on it... we must keep trying to do what we want to do... but certainly we are not machines ... we are not just a mere performer......

Life is so beautiful.... life is so meaningful... life is so cheerful and every aspect of life makes it complete..... its not just roses but thorns tooo that make it lively.....

I was inspired by a blog named Ye life hai take it lightly.... Hope we keep enjoying life and adding more beauty and meaning to the same....

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